Meet people, chat with friends, express yourself.Fun, safe, easy to use. Flirt, chat, date and view pics on your cell phone or online.

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How to Crush or Flush

HOMEPAGE

Meet new people
Get your game on and start crushin’, flushin’ or addingfriends. 

Invite friends
Just what it says….invite your friends.  Why should you get to have all the fun?

Level
Feeling a little competitive?  The more you play, the higher your level.  Keep tabs on your points here and how many more you need to move to the next level.  You get points (and coins) when you register, create a profile, upload pics, etc.

Gifts
Check out your gifts….you may just have a secret admirer.    

1 Messages
View your messages here.

2 Comments
Read, post or delete your comments. 

3 Friend requests
See who’s checkin’ you out.  We KNOW you want to know! 

4 Crushed me
Okay, so they’re playing it safe by crushing first. Don’t hold it against them.  Crush them back and you become friends and can start texting anonymously.

5 Live chat
Start chatting right away…no friends or crushes needed!

6 Coin bank
Ka-ching!  You get coins (and points) when you register, create a profile, upload a pic. Why do you need coins?  To impress that guy or girl with your generosity, to let them know you’re hot for them, or to make someone’s day.  Who doesn’t like getting gifts?  Not enough coins to suit your needs?  You can buy more for next to nothing.  Just click on your Coin bank, add coins and follow the instructions from there.

7 My friends
You know you’re popular….

 

 

AFTER CLICKING ON “Meet New People”…..

1 Add as Friend
You can add someone as a friend right off the bat.  Assuming they accept your invite (why wouldn’t they!!!), you become instant friends and can start texting anonymously or sending comments.

2 Crush
Not quite ready to be friends just yet?  Then go ahead and Crush them.  If they’re feeling the love and Crush you back…bingo…you become immediate friends and can start texting anonymously or send comments. 

3 Flush
Hit Flush if you’re not interested. They’ll never know you flushed them so no hard feelings.

Gift/msg/share
Wanna just pique their interest….send them a gift…no Crush or Friend Add needed.  Who would turn down a cocktail or some bling?  I mean really!

  • msg
    Sorry….no messaging until you’ve become friends.
  • share
    See someone who’s not for you but you’re feeling like sharing the love?  Send their profile to a friend (by cell# or email) and they’ll receive a text message with a link to the potential’s profile.  Who knows…your matchmaking skills may pay off. 

Snag a tag/flag 
Click on snag a tag if you see a tag that you just gotta have (even though you wish it was your idea first), just click on it to snag.  You’ve got 8 slots for tags (nobody likes a blabber mouth) so if your slots are full, you’ll need to drop a tag to add a new one.

  • flag
    A user isn’t playing nice, or fibbed about their age?  Flag them and we’ll take care of it. 

5 Photos
Click here and check out all their photos.  Don’t judge them by just one pic. 

6 Comments
Don’t worry about being nosy…that’s what comments are for.  See what others have to say about (or to) someone. 

7 Friends
Ah…now here’s where your real friends hang out.  Once you’ve got friends, chat away!

 

MY STUFF

Filter
Choose who you’re looking for by gender, age and location. You can also find out who has a Crush on you by clicking ‘Crushed me ’. You’ll see a list of everyone who has a Crush on you. Click on their pic to Crush them back if you’re so inclined.

Inbox
See a list of all the people who you’ve chatted with. Chat works like e-mail and IM. You can send messages back and forth without being online and you’ll see a running conversation with each person so you know where you left off last. This means no more tellin' the same joke twice.

Friends
Invite a friend to join by sending a text to their cell or email and they’ll get a message with a link to Crush or Flush.  Why should you get to have all the fun?!

  • requests
    See all the people who’ve sent you a friend request.  You can accept it, ignore it or skip and come back later. 

Crush
See who’s crushed you.  Crush ‘em back or ditch ‘em.  Don’t worry about others seeing who’s crushing you—no one else can see it—this is for your eyes only. 

  • online
    Need a little distraction from work?  Check out which of your friends are online. (Don’t go telling your boss we said that.)
  • brand new/top rated
    See who just recently signed up and who’s popular and on top.  How do you get to be top rated?  Add some hot pics, interesting tags and description and watch what happens.
  • more
    Take a look at your history of who you Crushed and who you Flushed.  It’s also just another place to go to set filters, see who’s Crushed you, who’s brand new and top rated. 

Profile
Make changes to your profile, add photos, change your main pic, update your nickname, etc.  Change your alert settings, turn prude mode on or off (just depends on how open-minded you are).  Change your password here too.

 

Want more info? Read the faq.